August 17th, 2010

“I could really use a wish right now”

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Modclothcardigan DolceVitaPelawedges RayBans11 I could really use a wish right now

Hopering I could really use a wish right now

TornbyRonnyKobodress AAcroppedtop Back I could really use a wish right now

Modclothcardigan DolceVitaPelawedges RayBans33 I could really use a wish right now

Hurleydress Zarashirt Aldoboots3 I could really use a wish right now

UOredboots I could really use a wish right now

Modcloth cardigan

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Ray bans

Hurleydress Zarashirt Aldoboots elephantnecklace I could really use a wish right now

Zarablazer AApants Topshopboots back I could really use a wish right now

Forever 21 shoes

Just some photos snapped (among other random, never before published ones) over the weekend during a KFC-filled picnic in Griffith Park with my new Dolce Vita Pela wedges.  Smart is wearing those wedges to the park only to trounce through dirt-ridden grassy patches, and smart is also wearing all black while laying out in the 80 degree heat.

Yesterday I picked up those faux suede 4″ platforms (above) from Forever 21.  The same style is also available online with tiny polka dots.  Sadly I needed to return the Jessica Simpson Dany shoes because, as hard as I tried, I just couldn’t walk in those heels without imagining myself falling down and breaking my ankle.  Since I don’t wear heels on a daily basis, I’ve developed this magical awkward aversion to them, aka I walk terribly slowly and more cautiously.   However, these F21 shoes are way more manageable.  Next up on my Fall shopping list — socks and thigh-highs screaming to be paired with my new platforms.

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July 23rd, 2010

Hair today, gone tomorrow

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Zarashirt Leopardshorts4 Hair today, gone tomorrow

American Apparel high waisted pants-Leopard headscarf

Leopardheadscarf4 Hair today, gone tomorrow

LAfleamarket Hair today, gone tomorrow

LAFleamarket2 Hair today, gone tomorrow

I’ve decided to go under the knife… well really, it’s more like scissors and chop my hair off.  It actually took seeing the top photo for me to fully come to the conclusion my hair has gotten to the way too long point.   Suppose that’s what happens when you get your hair trimmed once every 1.5 years.  Before my hair gets its mini makeover (still keeping it just past my shoulders so it won’t be uber short), I wanted to post these recent photos as the last memories of my long hair.

Dear long hair,

I will miss you.  We’ve been through a lot.  Changes, that is.  You stuck with me when I dyed you dark brown, light brown, dark brown, reddish (that was supposed to be light brown) and now black (twice in one week since the red tint still showed through after the first time).  Through it all, you’ve endured the bleach and, I thank you for staying strong.  Except for in the shower when you tend to fall out.  Can we work on that?  I do apologize though for not brushing you more often, and the resulting large knot that is formed from lack of said brushing.  It’s partially due to laziness, and well, because you tend to also fall out onto my floor and in my brush more than I’d like.  At least I spare you the heat and let you air dry as I drive to work.   And when more than a quarter of you will be gone, I hope you hurry your ass up and dry a lot faster.

XxXx

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June 4th, 2010

Flashback Friday

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It’s always fun to take a walk down memory lane and see how much you’ve evolved over the past year.  I suppose that’s another reason why I’m glad I decided to start this blog.  When I’m long gone, SwB will serve as a testament and reminder of what I did/wore/felt/loved during a carefree time in my life in which I’m still trying to figure out me.  Can you imagine looking at your blog and getting to re-live your style memories when you’re 50?  We should all plan a 20-year reunion from now, or rather a first-time meeting if we don’t get the chance to meet in present-day real life.  Hilarious… and at the same time, I kind of like that idea.

I posted these photos around this time last year, and times they are a-changin’.  Goodbye digital point and shoot camera, old apartment (rooftop background for photos) and brown hair.  I still love cutouts but haven’t worn this dress recently, and the same goes for these fishnet arm sleeves.  As things change naturally over time though, you can always count on that one constant in your life.

I still wear my vintage Justin Roper boots practically four times a week. 

Best $20 I ever spent.

Onward and upward.  xoxo

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March 2nd, 2010

Celebrating One Amazing Year

Exactly one year to this day, I took a leap and decided to start a journey, a personal one, that would put myself out there and share one of my passions with the world.  When I first thought about what I wanted to write in this post, I had planned to go in the reflective/mushy/why this blog has made such an impact on my life direction, but decided to save that for another day and time.  So instead, I’ve created a countdown list that best summarizes the past year — an amazing year — thanks to everyone who has supported and followed my blog. 

If I had never started Style with Benefits, I never would have…

10.  Started writing  ’xo’ on a regular basis

9.  Been called ‘Becs’.  My real name is Rebecca and no one has ever called me Becs before March 2009.  I started using that as my signature and it just stuck.

8.  Learned my ‘strengths and weaknesses’ when it comes to posing for photos.  Mental note:  I look silly when attempting serious facial expressions, and thus, stick to smiling, the closed mouth grin or looking down in my pics.

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7.  Learned how to use Photoshop, Picasa and other random photo editing programs

6.  Attempted to take my own photos with a tripod.  Major fail. 

5.  Become a shoe whore.  I was never into shoes all that much and now I probably look at shoes the most when I’m online shopping.

4.  Experimented more with my personal style.  Hello, floral harem pants.  

3.  Started questioning whether I should bring my camera to places on a regular basis just in case there is something blog-worthy to capture.

2.  Received some of the sweetest emails and comments that make me feel all warm and fuzzy inside

1.  Been inspired by an amazingly supportive community of individuals who just get it

I suppose what I’m trying to say is thank you for getting me.  This blog is an extension of who I am, and my opportunity to escape reality, so to speak, and dwell in a place where I can be myself.  It’s a place where I can explore my style and you all just get it, without questioning why or asking what the hell I was thinking.  

And that means more to me than you’ll ever know.

Here’s to new beginnings…

Becs 1 Celebrating One Amazing Year

 

* I hope you all like the new blog layout!  It’s quite a departure from the old one, but I hope you find this easier to navigate and read.  Please don’t forget to update your links and bookmarks with my new URL.  Thanks so much!

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